1. Direct sunlight: light travels from Sun to Moon
The Sun is the dominant visible light source in this system. Sunlight arrives from one direction, illuminating the lunar hemisphere that faces the Sun while the opposite hemisphere is in lunar night.
2. Reflection: moonlight is reflected sunlight
The lunar surface is rough, not a mirror. Incoming sunlight is scattered in many directions; only a small fraction travels toward Earth. That reflected sunlight enters our eyes and is what we call moonlight.
3. Shadow: important only in special alignments
Earth and Moon both cast shadow cones away from the Sun. Normal lunar phases are not made by Earth shadow. Shadows dominate only when Sun, Earth and Moon are nearly aligned and the lunar orbital nodes also line up, producing eclipses.
Normal phasesControlled by viewing geometry: roughly half of the Moon remains sunlit, while Earth sees a changing fraction of that illuminated hemisphere.
Solar / lunar eclipsesControlled by shadow: near new Moon the Moon shadow can reach Earth; near full Moon the Moon can enter Earth shadow. The orbital tilt is why this does not happen every month.